Mr. Good Guy

How to define a guy as good?
I'm curious
That day gathering with my friends
We had a discussion about this
How to define good?

He that will plan for his future?
He that will consider minute things of his love ones?
He that will not hurt his love ones?
Or what else?
None of us get an answer

Why do you need to define good or bad?
When you love someone
You love his good and bad
And so
I learn how to be considerate
I learn how to forgive and forget
Sometimes I'll be wondering
Am I sabotaging myself again?